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Thursday, December 31, 2020

My Favorite Books in 2020

 The year 2020 wasn't all bad.  I had more time to read.  Here are my favorites:


It's fiction but gives you a feel for the Cathars heresy and the Dominican inquisitors.


It's a cowboy story.  I have a soft spot for cowboys.



This novel elicited the best discussion!  Which protagonist set the events in motion?



I love everything Richard Russo writes.


This mystery surprised me.  You won't know "who dun it, either."


A good thriller!!!!


As a Lay Dominican, I thought this story sweet.



Good story with a foreign taste.  Expand your horizons with an interesting tale.


I learned mucho!  



                                                       Non-fiction but reads like a novel.  I saw the movie, too.

Wednesday, December 30, 2020

I Want More of You In My Life



 I'm talking to God.  I want You as a friend.  I want you as a constant companion.  You were familiar with Adam and Eve.  Can you talk to me as we walk in the garden?

Moses even dares to bargain with you to not destroy the city.  I guess I dare, too.  

But I want more.  As I age will my ears hear You better?  As I slow down, will I listen more?  

I keep reading how much You love us.  "As much as the Father loves me, so I also love you.  Remain in my love." John 15:9.

You want to be friends, too. We are all called to be "friends of God, and prophets."  (Wisdom 7: 27)

So, for my resolution for the New Year, 2021, I want God to be my closest friend.  The Holy Spirit gave us the Bible as a manual to do exactly this.  B=basic, I=instructions, B=before, L=leaving, E=earth.  I'll post my progress on this blog.  Pray for me.

In the Beginning


This video is narrated by Mr. Thomas Lynes, O.P., from Our Lady of Mercy Fraternity.  Tom is a graduate from our "cloistered brothers" in Norfolk, MA.


Monday, December 28, 2020

Lost

 


Lillie and I got a little lost.  We started out in Wrentham, MA, and ended up in Cumberland, RI. We were hiking the yellow trail and missed a turn and ended up at the reservoir.  

We weren't panicked, however.  It was a beautiful day and only around noon time.  If it close to dusk and cold, I think I would have been worried.  We asked directions from others and eventually found our way back to the trail.

It came to over five miles!

Saturday, December 26, 2020

Rasher's Christmas' Greetings

 These were some things that came to my mind when I observed some of the reactions since getting slammed by the corona virus: 

Souls walking inside a shell
souls talking about heaven and hell
some with the fear of God, others praising devils



no fear at all. 

All types of worshiping to saints and sinners,
souls asking souls "which ones are the winners"?
 And then came covid upon all the souls,
things got quiet behind the walls. 

Those souls who love zombies got to see them
first hand, but not on TV ,
you see, these were their friends.
They were sick, they were frail,
 some couldn't breathe, now all of a sudden,
 people offered God's speed. 

Souls who went out from behind the wall,
never came back for the count time call.
Some loved Jesus others loved the devil
others care less about hell or heaven.
No doubt there was fear in all these souls,
especially for those whose shells went cold.

 Souls alive inside a shell.
Shells been ravaged by a virus
 that doesn't know identity.
Gasping for breath, fighting for life,
no taste no smell, now wondering,
about heaven and hell? The questions,
 the fear, some pretending they don't care. 

Souls walking inside a shell,
not prepared for where this will end.
 I choose Christ and his Blessed mother
and the communion of saints
who know me like no other 

 I guess it doesn't matter how we feel the
Lords presence coming to us,
its what we do with it now!! 

Have a Peaceful and Blessed Christmas,
and here's wishing you all a Bright Healthy 2021!!! 

Friday, December 25, 2020

The Queen Evangelizer

 Have you seen Queen Elizabeth's Christmas message?  She is unabashedly evangelizing.  Of course, she has an audience I can only dream of attaining.  May God bless the queen!  



Wednesday, December 23, 2020

Mutual Obligations


 

LECTIO:


18 Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.

20 Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.

21 Fathers,[a] do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged.

22 Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything; and do it, not only when their eye is on you and to curry their favor, but with sincerity of heart and reverence for the Lord. 23 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, 24 since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. 25 Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for their wrongs, and there is no favoritism.

Masters, provide your slaves with what is right and fair, because you know that you also have a Master in heaven.

STUDIUM: 

Paul is a product of his time.  Remember you can't look at the past acurately with today's eyes.  Husbands, in Paul's time had obligations and parents duties.  Masters of slaves had responsibility.  IOW, authority brings challenges.

MEDITATIO:

God put me here and now.  Today the relationships Paul is commenting on are more reciprocal.  Husbands and wives have obligations towards one another.  Children aren't property, neither are slaves.  Today the church teaches us that these relationships are of mutual obligations.

ORATIO:

Lord, help me to love others and You do.  Help me see how I can help and serve.

CONTEMPLATIO:

As the prayer of St. Francis says, "Make me an instrument of Your peace."

RESOLUTIO:

The best way to hear Jesus' words today is through His bishops.  St. Paul was for his times.  I'll keep that in mind when I read the Bible.


Monday, December 21, 2020

How Important is Prayer?

 Prayer is so important that the first thing St. Dominic did was set up a monastery of nuns to pray for the foundation of his Order.

Prayer is so important that St. Theresa is considered a patron of missionaries even though she never left her convent.  She just prayed.

Saint Mother Theresa of Calcutta had two Orders, one contemplative and the other active sisters.


Sunday, December 20, 2020

Bible Pop-Up

 


This is a picture of one of the Vatican nativity sets.  It's a pop-up from a Bible.  Clever?  I like this one the best.  

The Vatican Square nativity has been getting a lot of bad publicity.  It looks like astronauts from outer space.  And this article says the pope snubbed it too.  So I guess the pope doesn't approve of what is displayed beforehand.

I Was Broken

 


I used to be one of those people who bristled when people wished me "Happy Holidays."  If it were Hanukah, I would respond with "Happy Hanukah!" -- likewise, if it were Christmas.

I felt that the people using the greeting, "Happy Holidays," were taking the Christ out of Christmas.  But over the years, I can see that they weren't doing that.  They didn't know any better.  They thought they were being clever in covering all the bases since they didn't know what religious season you were celebrating.

So, I'm changing my attitude and accepting the fact that they mean well.

Saturday, December 19, 2020

Capital Punishment

 Pope Francis' encyclical, Fratelli Tutti, makes it perfectly clear that capital punishment is unnecessary. 

268. “The arguments against the death penalty are numerous and well-known. The Church has rightly called attention to several of these, such as the possibility of judicial error and the use made of such punishment by totalitarian and dictatorial regimes as a means of suppressing political dissidence or persecuting religious and cultural minorities, all victims whom the legislation of those regimes consider ‘delinquents’. All Christians and people of good will are today called to work not only for the abolition of the death penalty, legal or illegal, in all its forms, but also to work for the improvement of prison conditions, out of respect for the human dignity of persons deprived of their freedom. I would link this to life imprisonment… A life sentence is a secret death penalty”.

Just the fact that murder is still being committed proves that the threat of capital punishment doesn't prevent a murder from happening.  Even St. Augustine argued, 

 During the trial of the murderers of two priests, Saint Augustine asked the judge not to take the life of the assassins with this argument: “We do not object to your depriving these wicked men of the freedom to commit further crimes. Our desire is rather that justice be satisfied without the taking of their lives or the maiming of their bodies in any part. And, at the same time, that by the coercive measures provided by the law, they be turned from their irrational fury to the calmness of men of sound mind, and from their evil deeds to some useful employment. 

Putting perpetrators to work is a better idea than prison.  They could work and the money they make could go to the victim's family and the state.  Any idea would be better than killing people and/or locking them up for life.


Friday, December 18, 2020

A Family of Opportunists

 



Although it was a beautiful Christmas tree—tiny white lights sparkled between bright colored balls and various decorations—Susie, the Elf on the Shelf, was happy she was sitting comfortably between books, more or less in the shadows of the top shelf. The atmosphere was festive, with jingle bells and music in the background.

Yes, for sure the holidays had begun.  The children ran around excitedly, sometimes running over furniture and pushing each other—until they caught sight of Susie, or Moshe, the mensch on the bench.  Then the children walked gently, talked politely, and acted more like little angels are supposed to act.

Moshe winked at Susie.  Moshe is a mensch which means he’s a nice guy.  And he is sweet but his unkempt beard was a turn-off to Susie.  She hated facial hair. She preferred a clean cut look, much like Stanley, who lived in the book on the bottom shelf of Susie’s bookcase.

Even though Stanley was flat, OK, extremely flat, Susie was infatuated with him.  Of course he was flat, he lived in a book.  But he was handsome, literate, and well-traveled.

Susie knew all this because her vocation was to listen and observe.  She was an  expert on not only her families’ lives but also on the lives of all the characters in the books in the book case, the children’s stuffed animals, and dolls.  This was her world.

Moshe is a good listener, too.  He’s good at everything, because, well just because he’s a good guy, a mensch.  He sits under the menoraeh on a bench and watches and listens.  You should see his eyebrows go up when the children get rowdy.  When the children remember that Susie and Moshe are watching and listening, they get quiet and behave better.

When the children quiet down, Moshe winks at Susie. This is what Susie doesn’t like.  That wink is too familiar.  She doesn’t want to be rude to the mensch but she doesn’t want to be rude to a mensch, but she doesn’t want to give him the impression that she wants to have more than a working relationship with him.

Why can’t Stanley wink at her? Flat Stanley lives in the children’s book, Flat Stanley by Jeff Brown. And the idea of Stanley traveling the globe to promote reading, writing, and good will was the idea of Dale Hubert. Children mail Stanley to relatives and friends and ask them to take a picture with Stanley, write a letter and send him back.

Stanley tells the most interesting stories of places he has visited and the friends he has met. I’d introduce you to him, but (sigh) he’s traveling again.

And so the holiday festivities continued with the children dancing around Susie and Moshe. Hanukah and Christmas came and went. Susie had hoped Stanley would have come back home for the holidays, but he didn’t.  He must have been delayed. The mail around the holidays is notoriously slow.

Still.

Then came the day when the father was reading the newspaper and he read some devastating news.  He told the family to gather around and listen while he read an obituary:

Flat Stanley died suddenly after hiking the Warner Trail in Wrentham, MA.  He was born in a book by Jeff Brown and was a proud friend to all and enjoyed being mailed all around the globe. He will be missed by everyone, especially by young readers in the first grade.
         A funeral Mass will be held at St. Mary’s.  His internment will be private.  In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Literacy Project.

Susie was distraught!  She fell off the shelf!  No one noticed.  

The children took the opportunity to express the wish that they wanted the sequel to the book, Flat Stanley—Pancake Patti, as a Hanukah or Christmas gift.

Moshe, ever the mensch, was already making room on the bench for the new book.

Susie was on the floor, having been pulled off the shelf by a heavy heart.  Moshe’s heart went out to Susie and when all was quiet, he went over to Susie and helped her up to his bench.

And that’s how the family found them in the morning.  Susie’s head was resting on Moshe’s shoulder and his arm was around her.

They made the perfect couple.

A Sacred Place

 

Icon of Moses taking off his shoes because he is in a sacred place.  I think of this incident every time I enter the prison.  My "cloistered brothers" have turned their prison into a monastery.

Thursday, December 17, 2020

Home Altar

 The lesson in teaching the Mass is the altar linens.  Remember we are playing Mass and making do with what's hanging around the house.

Altar  --  folding card table          Corporal  -- white placemat             Purificator  --  Grandpa's hanky
Altar cloth  --  table cloth             Lavabo towel  --  white towel          Paten  --  dessert plate
Chalice  -- parfait glass                Candles  --  candles                          Altar Crucifix--  desk cross

This lesson is just setting up the altar and explaining that it's the Last Supper.  We are setting the table.



Monday, December 14, 2020

Failed Again!

 


Shocked!  I was shocked!  Here I've been talking to my granddaughters about religion for around ten years now, and I never realized that they didn't know that we Catholics call our priests, "Fathers."

What a failure I am!  Something as simple as that.

We were at La Salette Shrine, looking at their magnificent display of Christmas lights when a priest walked by.

"Good evening."

"Good evening, Father"  Both girls heads spun around.  "You called him Father?? Why???

Because that's a title we give to priests.

Lazarus calls out, Father Abraham have pity...

The Prodigal Son says, "Father I have sinned against God and against you."

It is just customary since a priest takes care of his people's spiritual needs as a parent takes care of his family's physical needs.  

How could I have ever neglected to teach them something as simple as calling a priest, Father!  Failed Again.


Sunday, December 13, 2020

The Blind Good Men

 



What attracted me to "The Good Men" A Novel of Heresy by Charmaine Craig was the fact that it is historical fiction dealing with the Albigensians and the Dominicans. I was hoping that I would learn more about this heresy and understand what made it attractive.

I was not disappointed, plus I was entertained by professional character development. The two main characters, Grazida and Pierre were particularly well-drawn. In fact, the author's idea for this novel came from reading the transcript of Grazida's testimony at her Inquisition trial.

Grazida was a sympathetic character. Pierre was not. He was a bum priest who deserved what he got.

What drove the plot was sex. Although the sex in this novel was not gratuitous. The priest was weak, a coward, unfaithful, and a womanizer. He lusted after his brother's lover. He consummated that lust with Grazida, his grandniece, who looked like her grandmother. Grazida did not know that Pierre was her uncle.

Poor Grazida, Pierre was the love of her life. Her mother was a drunk and her father died young. Her traumatic childhood caused her to be mute, "selective mutism." When Grazida became pregnant by Pierre, she didn't know what to do. The problem was solved by a penitent, Pierre met in Confession. His name was Arnaud, a sodomite, who we later learn would die from syphilis.

Arnaud was a doctor's son and ashamed of his lifestyle so he ran away from his father's home. Pierre arranged for Arnaud to marry Grazida--problem solved. No one would suspect that Arnaud was a homosexual nor would they suspect that Pierre was the father of Grazida's baby.

Unfortunately but fortunately, Arnaud's sickness got worse and Grazida wrote to his doctor/father. That saved the day. The doctor loved Arnaud and soon loved Grazida, and the baby. Just at that time when everyone was secure in their little family, Grazida was summoned to the Inquisition. (Good thing the doctor was there to take of everyone.)

When Grazida gave birth to her daughter, Merce, her life changed. She thought she loved Pierre, but that was nothing compared to her love for her baby. Plus, Grazida got her voice back. Now she could answer whatever the Inquisitors asked.

They were after Pierre (about time!) In fact, the entire village had been inquisitioned, but no one would implicate him. 

Because Grazida would have been sentenced to life imprisonment, she cooperated with the Inquisition. She told them all they needed to convict Pierre. He was a Cathar. He protected them and helped them. Grazida was allowed to go home to her baby.

There was another major character in the novel. He was the Inquisitor, the Dominican Bernard of Toulouse. He was an orphan brought up by the Dominicans and joined them. When he learned of Pierre's wanton ways and association with the heretics, he became obsessed with capturing him.

What so terrible about the Cathars? The main concept which I don't see the attraction is that everything in our world is bad. Everything we enjoy is bad, including sex. (Now where is the attraction?) Pierre thought becoming a Cathar would help his lust.

Because the Cathars were very ascetic and stayed chaste they were called the "Good Men." Too bad these Good Men didn't open their eyes to see that everything God created is good.

Saturday, December 12, 2020

Needy People


 


A  complaint I often vocalize is "I'm a magnet for the needy."  

My mother would say that's because I'm a sucker.

I feel it's a character/personality defect where I want everyone to love me.  So I marry everyone.  You know what I mean?  I cozy up to people and act like we're the best of friends.  I don't fake this; it's how I am.  I treat everyone as though we're good friends.

This results in people thinking that I am their closest BFF.  They are always calling me and asking for favors.  It drives me crazy and makes me feel guilty that I can't do what they ask.

For example, Years ago, a hurricane hit us.  The governor declared an emergency and told everyone to stay home.  During the hurricane, the electricity went out.  Soon, there was a knock on the door and it was two of my most needy friends.  They're sisters.  

I said, "What are you doing?  There's a state emergency.  You shouldn't have left your home."  They responded, "We don't have any electricity."  "Neither do we," I said.

Meanwhile, my husband was behind me.  He said right in front of them.  "Tell them to go to the police and close the door."

I was embarrassed.  I couldn't close the door in their faces.  

But that's what I did.  I said, "I'm sorry." And I closed the door.  I also felt terrible!  All they wanted was companionship which is exactly what my husband didn't want to give them.  He calls them the "biggest pain in the ass in the world," because they're always calling me.

But you know something, if I didn't have my husband I'd have a house full of homeless people, ex-cons, and other needy people.  (I pray I die before him.)

I often wonder what God wants me to do for them.  I am not a counselor.  I have no money.  I don't have the where-with-all to help anyone.  What am I suppose to do with all these people who hang on me?

Then I read, "God between the lines."  It is the story of a missionary explaining his spiritual journey.  He sometimes feels that he has nothing to help his people.  So he dismissed the people with their problems. There was no way he could help them. But he came to a reflective solution, " From now on, I'm going to try my best just to listen, because even if I have no solutions, I have ears, a heart and hope."

Me too.  I have ears, a heart and hope.  I can just listen.

Friday, December 11, 2020

The Manner of the Resurrection

 Since my "cloistered brother", Milt died, his friends on the outside are holding a zoom memorial service for him.  I am assigned to read, 1 Corinthians 15: 35-57.

It is a mouthful.  The repetition may read nicely in your mind, but it is difficult to read aloud, at least in NAB.

This morning I was praying the Office for the Dead for Milt and came across the same reading.  It's different enough to be more readable. Compare:


53  For that which is corruptible must clothe itself with incorruptibility and that which is mortal must clothe itself with immortality. And when this which is corruptible clothes itself with incorruptibility and   this which is mortal clothes itself with immortality, then the word that is written shall come about...

v.

This corruptible body must be clothed with incorruptibility, this mortal body with immortality. When the corruptible frame takes on incorruptibility and the mortal immortality, then will the saying of Scripture be fulfilled..


Which do you prefer?

Thursday, December 10, 2020

A Subtle Encore from Our Lady of Guadalupe — Beyond These Stone Walls

A Subtle Encore from Our Lady of Guadalupe — Beyond These Stone Walls: Just decades after Christopher Columbus explored the New World, a Marian apparition near Mexico City left behind a work of art as wondrous for science as for faith. Father MacRae writes from prison.

Plenary Indulgence = Good Time


 Good Time in prison parlance:

A: Good time credit is earned for “good behavior” described in law as “exemplary compliance with institutional disciplinary regulations.” Good time credit reduces a prisoner’s actual time in Bureau of Prisons (BOP) custody. This time off is also called “good conduct time.” The law governing good time can be found at 18 U.S.C. § 3624(b).  

Plenary Indulgence in church parlance:

A: Definition of plenary indulgence

a remission of the temporal punishment for sin

That's the way my "cloistered brothers" understand it.  Anyway, my prayer partner and I pray the Rosary every day at 6:00PM and according to Pope Francis declaration we qualify for the plenary indulgence.
–       The recitation of the Holy Rosary in families and among engaged couples is another way of obtaining indulgences, in order that “all Christian families may be stimulated to recreate the same atmosphere of intimate communion, love and prayer that was in the Holy Family.”      

Monday, December 7, 2020

It's My Tone, Isn't It?

                  And if I were arguing why would I even bother if I thought I was wrong?



St. Nicholas Day

 To do good, and to distribute, forget not; for with such sacrifices God is well pleased.

Hebrews 13.16

O you who love festivals,
Come gather and sing the praises of the fair beauty of bishops,
The glory of the fathers,
The fountain of wonders and great protector of the faithful.

Let us say: Rejoice, O guardian of the people of Myra,
Their head and honored counselor,
The pillar of the church which cannot be shaken.

Rejoice, O light full of brightness
That makes the ends of the world shine with wonders.

Rejoice, O divine delight of the afflicted,
The fervent advocate of those who suffer from injustice.

And now, O all-blessed Nicholas,
Never cease praying to Christ our God
For those who honor the festival of your memory
With faith and with love.
—0rthodox Liturgy

From the Winter Pascha by Thomas Hopko



Sunday, December 6, 2020

His Yoke is Easy

 

  This is John T. Faris.  He lived 1871-1949.  He was a writer, a Presbyterian minister, and a magazine publisher.  This is a good meditation he wrote.


A man was carrying a heavy basket.  His son asked to help him.  The father cut a stick and placed it through the handle of the basket so that the end toward himself was very short, while the end toward the boy was three or four times as long.  Each took hold of his end of the stick, and the basket was lifted and easily carried.  The son was bearing the burden with the father, but he found the work easy and light because his father assumed the heavy end of the stick.  Just so it is when we bear the yoke with Christ; He sees to it that the burden laid on us is light; He carried the heavy end.




Thank You Jesus for the Gift

 Almost fifteen years ago I bought a book of Advent Meditations by Father Peter Stravinskas.  I haven't looked at it since today.  On Friday of Week 1, Year B, he wrote:

During this season our minds are often focused on getting the right gift for the right person. What about the right gift from the right person? For example, have you thought about asking the Lord for a Christmas gift?

In line with today's readings, I intend to ask for understanding and sight, which produce insight.  And I am confident that Almighty God will grant this request because it is asking for the right gift from the right Person.

I wrote a notation after this reading that I was asking for health.  Fifteen years ago when I last did these Advent Meditations I was suffering from Cronkhite Canada SyndromeHere's a description. 

Ask and you shall receive.  Today, I am thanking God for my health.

 2008

Me in

Friday, December 4, 2020

A Statement v. A Mirror


 

While turning pages this morning, I came across "The Mirror of Faith" by William of Thierry.  I was looking for "The Statement of Faith" by St. John Damascene.  I read both.  

I prefer William of Thierry's.  William talks mostly about the Holy Spirit and I can readily understand what he is talking about.  

...If when he comes he finds you humble, silent and trembling at the words of God, he will rest upon you and reveal what God the Father has hidden from the wise and prudent of this world.  You will then begin to understand the things holy Wisdom could have told his disciples on earth, but which they were unable to bear...

That's my experience, also.  How many people have been educated in religion, yet do not know God, or worse, think they know God and turn away from Him?  These people haven't listened to the Spirit.

St. John Damascene, seems not to have encountered the Spirit but was blessed. to have always have been born into Him.  

O Lord, you led me from my father's loins and formed me in my mother's womb.  You brought me, a naked babe, into the light of day, for nature's laws always obey your commands.

St. John Damascene's experience is unique.


Thursday, December 3, 2020

Mercy Woods

 Joan and I hiked a new trail today.  Since Joan is 90 years old, it took awhile to walk a mile and a half.  It took 90 minutes to be exact.  Joan cracks me up.  Every time she talks, she stops.  She can't talk and walk, at the same time.  

It was a beautiful day.  We were walking the grounds around the Sisters of Mercy.  They have a rehabilitation center, a school, and offices.  The woods are called Mercy Woods. 


Zechariah

 In Luke 1:5-25, we see Zechariah doubting the message the angel, the Lord sent.  I always felt this was unfair because Mary doubts also, ...