Theo Drama

 Poor me.  Is that how you feel sometimes?  Think of Job, in the Bible.  Think of Eyeore.  Think of St. Joseph learning that his betrothed is pregnant.  Think of Jesus being sentenced to crucifixion.

Life is full of failures.  You are going to stub your toe.  You are going to strike out, miss the net, etc.  That's life.  It's your attitude handling these failures that will determine how you come through the experience more mentally, emotionally, and spiritually healthy.  

Don't have a pity party by yourself.  Think of the experience as part of  God's plan for you.  God is pointing you in a new direction.  He doesn't think this is good for you.  He needs you to do something for Him.  God has another plan.