My Christian Prayer group meets on zoom, nowadays. My friend, Albert is on it, too. Albert is 90 years old and deaf as a
haddock. I try to help him as much as I
can. He has trouble hearing and following the conversation and
instructions. If he does hear it, he
doesn’t understand it. It takes time for
his mind to process the information—at least that’s how I see it. I am very sympathetic towards him because I
have a feeling that I will be in his condition, someday, and I hope people
will be kind to me.
Last week, the night after our zoom meeting, I had a dream
about Albert—a nightmare, actually. Albert accidentally locked me in a closet. He was oblivious that he shut the door on me
and the door was locked. He didn’t hear
me call. He didn’t hear me bang. No one did.
That’s it. That’s the dream that woke me up. It really bothered me.
I didn’t have to have psychoanalysis to figure out that I
felt trapped by Albert. I admit that
when he’s not at a meeting I feel happy.
Do I feel stuck? I shouldn’t because when I don’t have time or the
patience on certain days, I tell that to Albert and he accepts it.
But still.
It continued to bother me for a few days. So much so that I just had to get out of that
closet. Now this closet was not a
walk-in-closet like you have in your bedroom.
It was a closet that classrooms have.
It was full of shelves. I barely
had room to turn around. I started
looking for something to smash through the door. There were mostly reams of paper and some
boxes. I saw a couple of glass vases
that were pretty heavy and solid. But
then I saw a statue of liberty. It was
about a foot high and made of metal.
That was my best choice. How
ironic would that be if I gained my freedom from a statue of liberty!
So I banged on the door.
No one came, but I noticed that the center of the door seemed weak. So I banged and banged, concentrating on the
center. I banged until I smashed
through. It was a small hole but big
enough to slip my hand through.
And my arm followed my hand through the hole and down to the
door knob. I was looking for that little
knob mechanism that turned the lock. It
wasn’t there; instead this side of the knob had the key hold, which meant that
the locking mechanism was on the inside of the door—my side. All this time, all I had to do was unlock the
door from the inside, myself.
I’m an idiot. I have
the solution to my problems, within my self.
All I have to do is open the door.
My astronomy club meets on zoom, nowadays. My friend, Albert is on it, too. Albert is 90 years old and deaf as a
haddock. I try to help him as much as I
can. He has trouble hearing and following the conversation and
instructions. If he does hear it, he
doesn’t understand it. It takes time for
his mind to process the information—at least that’s how I see it. I am very sympathetic towards him because I
have a feeling that I will be in his condition, some day, and I hope people
will be kind to me.
Last week, the night after our zoom meeting, I had a dream
about Albert—a nightmare, actually. Albert accidentally locked me in a closet. He was oblivious that he shut the door on me
and the door was locked. He didn’t hear
me call. He didn’t hear me bang. No one did.
That’s it. That’s the dream that woke me up. It really bothered me.
I didn’t have to have psychoanalysis to figure out that I
felt trapped by Albert. I admit that
when he’s not at a meeting I feel happy.
Do I feel stuck? I shouldn’t because when I don’t have time or the
patience on certain days, I tell that to Albert and he accepts it.
But still.
It continued to bother me for a few days. So much so that I just had to get out of that
closet. Now this closet was not a
walk-in-closet like you have in your bedroom.
It was a closet that classrooms have.
It was full of shelves. I barely
had room to turn around. I started
looking for something to smash through the door. There were mostly reams of paper and some
boxes. I saw a couple of glass vases
that were pretty heavy and solid. But
then I saw a statue of liberty. It was
about a foot high and made of metal.
That was my best choice. How
ironic would that be if I gained my freedom from a statue of liberty!
So I banged on the door.
No one came, but I noticed that the center of the door seemed weak. So I banged and banged, concentrating on the
center. I banged until I smashed
through. It was a small hole but big
enough to slip my hand through.
And my arm followed my hand through the hole and down to the
door knob. I was looking for that little
knob mechanism that turned the lock. It
wasn’t there; instead this side of the knob had the key hold, which meant that
the locking mechanism was on the inside of the door—my side. All this time, all I had to do was unlock the
door from the inside, myself.
I’m an idiot. I have
the solution to my problems, within my self.
All I have to do is open the door.